General Naval and Military Chat >> Royal Marines >> can i find out
can i find out
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Posted about 1 year ago elo my husband told me he was in the Marines for 17yrs, from 1979-94, he has Raped my 8yr old Daughter for 3YRS, n the police r tellin me He was NEVER in the Military, how can i find out the truth |
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| Posted about 1 year ago If the police say he wasn't, then I'd say he wasn't. Alis volat propriis Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome.
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| Posted about 1 year ago Hi XDDX, First of all, I cannot fully understand how you must be feeling at the moment, although I can empathise with the frustration and anger you must be experiencing. I would advise you though, to let the Police do their job, and any information you do find to only be used for your own 'peace of mind' so to speak - and not to make the situation any worse for you or your daughter! There is a cost to find out information on this website - (UK Records Database Hub) http://ukrecordshub.com/military.php?type=Military Although, the Ministry of Defence may be your best bet, but considering the circumstances - you may need a Freedom of Information Request.. Your daughters welfare must be of top concern - The Police must have assigned her an officer, or a witness care assistant, who you should talk any of your concerns and plans through properly with. I say "great sovereign state" with design and emphasis,
Our past is the key to our future, which I firmly trust and believe will be no less fertile and glorious.
Winston Churchill. |
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| Posted about 1 year ago i av recieved no information or help what so ever from the police, what is a witness care officer, or even a family liason officer, i have pics ov different yrs with my husband with his military uniform on, i av a letter from the Mod addressed to my husband i have certificates from the marines n yet the police say that he was never in the marines, i think they are covering up for him, |
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| Posted about 1 year ago A Witness Care Assistant, is an Assistant Officer who Cares for Witnesses - deals with their worries, concerns, talks them through PACE (Police and Criminal Evidence Act) procedure before passing case to Crown Prosecutors (CPS), to see if the Crown will pass the case to be heard in court.. A Family Liaison Officer, is near enough the same as mentioned above, but normally specialises in Child Protection, and liaises with the family on all matters concerning the inintial complaint (report) made to police. From what you say - It doesn't appear that getting the information from the link i gave you would be of any help to you anyway.. If thats what you really think - then your only option is to employ the services of a Solicitor, which in a case like this would cost anything up to 400 pound an hour that you would be liable to pay, and make it a 'Civil' case alongside the (i assume) already running 'Criminal' rape case.. There is no more help i can give you on this matter... I hope your daughter is ok - and wish you the best of luck! I say "great sovereign state" with design and emphasis,
Our past is the key to our future, which I firmly trust and believe will be no less fertile and glorious.
Winston Churchill. |
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| Posted about 1 year ago Can I ask why it is important for you to know if he was in marines or not Xddx? PM if you want. Seems a shame you haven't had any support re: your daughter, something I think you should definetly chase up, for both of you. Alis volat propriis Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome.
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| Posted about 1 year ago Your Husband has apparently carried out the most vile abuse both physically and mentally of both you and your daughter. The fact that he may have lied to you about aspects of his life prior to these abuse should come as no surprise to you. whether he was a member of the armed forces or not is almost irrelevant to this case. He has betrayed you in the worse possible way , any other betrayals along the way pail into insignificance compared to the main abuses. Please follow the advise by paycop and push your local police authority to do everything in their power to bring a conviction, however long and painful this path maybe, Concentrate on keeping you and your daughter together and remember that you are responsible ONLY for your action and of no one else's. take care and good luck with the future. |
